Wow. Thank you, Greta...and those who have commented so far. :-) It appears most of you are introverts.
I am an EXTREME EXTROVERT. My husband in very much an introvert. He tries to explain in bits and pieces. After 30 years together you would think I understand it.
You have shared a valuable peek in the mind and heart of an introvert that I appreciate so very much. This is a good relational tool and I appreciate it.
Like your photo...I look at photos of others that I know are introverts and I see the same face. I used to think it was a look of deep sorrow. But I understand better now. :-)
I love this. I always thought I was an introvert growing up, turns out I am, even though I can handle my own in a group or social setting. LOL, I realized with a lot of self-analysis and self-love that I was pretending to be what I thought would help me to fit in. Once I faced this truth, I realized I needed to come first, and if that meant being the quiet one that everyone thought was odd, I was okay with it. Now I resolutely choose who I exchange energy with. If I have to spend time around those who don't align with my energy (think family get-togethers), I spend a lot of time preparing and building up my energy reserves. Bless you, for sharing.
Absolutely loved this! I am an extreme introvert while also very comfortable in group/social settings. Although I am comfortable in the role of an extrovert, I do not prefer or enjoy it. I love not leaving my house for days and that most of my friendships exist over the phone. I find great peace in isolation knowing that I am not hiding or avoiding. Now that I am older and known myself better, I find that most of my closet friends are also introverts- paying close attention to the world around them. Thanks again for your lovely point of view.
Oh I relate so much to this! People ask if I struggle with loneliness out here on the hill, tied to the farm with a flock of sheep for company. Nope, I’ve chosen the isolation and quietness because I’m extremely introverted and need vast amounts of time alone. A trip to town requires days of recovery!
Guessing all of our unique childhoods have brought us all here to be more internal navigators. I work off feelings all the time. Always slow to respond which made some tell me I was dumb. I knew I wasn’t just took it all in before I too could or would respond.
Already I’ve responded more than I ever have in life
I will order the book! I have a lot on my plate but better understanding those we love is most important. Thank you - Always. ;-)
Wow. Thank you, Greta...and those who have commented so far. :-) It appears most of you are introverts.
I am an EXTREME EXTROVERT. My husband in very much an introvert. He tries to explain in bits and pieces. After 30 years together you would think I understand it.
You have shared a valuable peek in the mind and heart of an introvert that I appreciate so very much. This is a good relational tool and I appreciate it.
Like your photo...I look at photos of others that I know are introverts and I see the same face. I used to think it was a look of deep sorrow. But I understand better now. :-)
I love this. I always thought I was an introvert growing up, turns out I am, even though I can handle my own in a group or social setting. LOL, I realized with a lot of self-analysis and self-love that I was pretending to be what I thought would help me to fit in. Once I faced this truth, I realized I needed to come first, and if that meant being the quiet one that everyone thought was odd, I was okay with it. Now I resolutely choose who I exchange energy with. If I have to spend time around those who don't align with my energy (think family get-togethers), I spend a lot of time preparing and building up my energy reserves. Bless you, for sharing.
Absolutely loved this! I am an extreme introvert while also very comfortable in group/social settings. Although I am comfortable in the role of an extrovert, I do not prefer or enjoy it. I love not leaving my house for days and that most of my friendships exist over the phone. I find great peace in isolation knowing that I am not hiding or avoiding. Now that I am older and known myself better, I find that most of my closet friends are also introverts- paying close attention to the world around them. Thanks again for your lovely point of view.
Oh I relate so much to this! People ask if I struggle with loneliness out here on the hill, tied to the farm with a flock of sheep for company. Nope, I’ve chosen the isolation and quietness because I’m extremely introverted and need vast amounts of time alone. A trip to town requires days of recovery!
Guessing all of our unique childhoods have brought us all here to be more internal navigators. I work off feelings all the time. Always slow to respond which made some tell me I was dumb. I knew I wasn’t just took it all in before I too could or would respond.
Already I’ve responded more than I ever have in life
So relatable! I’ve finally slowed down out in the woods away from the buzz finally getting to know myself and my soulmate.
What a fantastic article! You've taught me much about myself in these paragraphs.
Are you also an empath? Do you pick up on energies and feelings in groups of people that likewise affect your inner self?
That drives me insane in public! 🤯